Bananas and Melons maintains the belief that sexuality is a fundamental and positive human expression. The importance of sexuality must be considered in balance with life; the balance of our sexual expression within our lifestyle, priority management, values and desires, the balance of male and female, masculine and feminine, whether that's in heterosexual or homosexual relationships and friendships, the balance of physical and emotional, intellectual and spiritual aspects of love and lust, the balance of playfulness and pleasure with connection and commitment, and the balance of healthy sexuality with a healthy self and healthy relationship.
Many may wonder, "What is there to learn about sex? Isn't it simply the most natural thing in the world? Isn't it instinct?" Bananas and Melons is founded on the belief that sexuality is complex, and yes, there is much to be learned about sex, self and sharing, throughout life. As Dr Gabrielle often says in her talks, "Of course sex is natural, and if you want a lifetime of basic bonks in the forest like other animals in nature, you may be happy thinking there's nothing more to learn. But humans are more evolved and complex than animals, and our emotional link to sexuality is very important. So while sex is absolutely natural, active pursuit of learning more about our holistic sexuality, including fulfilment, function, expression and enhancement, across our changing relationships, identities and lives, is just as natural."
Bananas and Melons delivers sexual information and expertise, through a variety of formats, non-judgementally, with the most current knowledge and research, and with complete sensitivity, sassy humour, straight-forward wisdom, practical strategies, and solid take-home (and take to bed!) value for all, packaged in the grounded philosophy of sexology in balance.
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